Written for men going through a divorce. There are many challenges that men face when going through the divorce process that need to be recognized and understood - particularly the part of men that is wired to "win." That desire to win compounded by the desire for fairness is at the root of many long drawn out divorces. This only makes the attorneys more money and delays the ultimate goal, of getting through the process and on to the next phase of life. This book will help you be aware of some of the emotions that will come up and give suggestions on what to do and what not to do with those emotions.